This happens. We put up shields to keep away unwanted energy when we are going through a difficult or unpleasant time. We put a lot of energy into dealing with whatever this unpleasantness is. In putting our energy into this, we neglect other aspects of our self. These aspects gets pushed down and neglected. Often, this may be the ability to to have happiness and connect with other people. Well guess what happens? You deal with whatever these problems were, and then these forgotten aspects reemerge. They begin to bubble to the surface, and they feel odd and foreign to you. They have been pushed to the shadows, and now they come to the light. Coax these out of the shadows. Let them become part of your whole again. This is to be complete. You will beam a new kind of energy that others will be attracted to. You will feel empowered, strong, and complete.